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Romans 12:14 Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse.

When we are cursed, we bless; when we are persecuted, we endure it;
when we are slandered, we answer kindly...1 Corinthians 4:12

We are to Bless at the EXACT moment that it is not in our heart...

Under these circumstances our only choice is to write down a blessing
ahead of time OR to use one supplied by God from Holy Scripture.
Click the links below to print some of our Bible Blessings

None of us can erase a bad thought...
our only choice is to REPLACE it with a blessing.
If you do not believe try NOT
thinking about a pink elephant for just one minute.
THEN you will understand how important it is to print at least ONE of the following cards.
Click here to print them six to a page.
For child friendly blessings...scroll down.
For scriptural blessings Click Here
For marriage saver blessings Click Here
For blessings for siblings. Click Here

Click the title to print any blessing.
Blessing for Boys
Hard as it may be to believe Boys do get hurt worse by divorce and their injuries are lifelong. If you don't quite know how to help your boy PLEASE try this blessing. It works whether they are 4 or 14.

Blessing for Spiritual Riches
Poverty follows divorce like a bear follows honey. This blessing reminds us and our children that true riches can't be kept in the bank. We should be greedy BUT not for money.

Blessing for an Unsaved Child
There is nothing like divorce to make a child doubt all love, even God's. USING this blessing is guaranteed to make things better.

Blessing for Loss
For children divorce is all about losing things, sometimes about losing everything...friends, house, school, grandparents, even hope and safety. This blessing can encourage everyone to ask for and look for NEW THINGS.

Blessing for an Abused Child.
Having a child abused is one of the worst feelings in the world. This blessing can help. If you yourself are sometimes the abuser PLEASE see a Pastor.

Helping Children (and ourselves) with fear.
The one sure thing that EVERY child of divorce shares is FEAR. The fear will be very personal but it will be very real and this page can help. We reccomend also that you try our bird feeding activity. "Consider the birds of the air".

Helping Children (and ourselves) with anger.
Even after the divorce is over the anger lives on...often in the hearts of the children. This page can help turn anger into a bond that brings you closer together instead of a bomb that is constantly ticking.

Morning Blessing (Changing Caregivers)
The stress meter for divorce is higher for children than any other event save the death of a parent. To be in any way manageable we must do all we can to prevent further stress and make life as dependable and smooth as possible. One way is to use this blessing when changing caregivers.

Blessing for workers
One of the great values of the blessings is to help children know what REALLY pleases us. Sometimes these things get lost in daily life. Being a worker is a good thing emotionally and financially.
Blessing for wisdom
Anything that will help your child THINK is a good thing.

Blessing for Self Image
The one choice every family has to make daily is to bless one another or to be irritable. The great value of blessing cards is that they remind us what is important when so many things seem urgent.

Blessing from the breastplate of St. Patrick
Perhaps the words should be modernized but there is something about this blessing that makes you think St. Patrick had a mother (or father) who cared about him very much.

Traditional Irish Blessing
Blessings can and should be FUN as well as sincere.

These pages are free . The one payment we do ask is that you forward each page to someone you know.

The Christian Child Care Coalition
P.o. Box 8094
Topeka, Ks. 66618

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